3 Tips for the Perfect Date
Dating can be hard at the best of times, let alone after a pandemic. Let’s be honest, the months of sitting inside trying so hard notto socialise has pretty much killed the romantic vibe. At this point, do we even know what romance is anymore? Sitting inside and having to make conversation with a complete stranger? I don’t think so. But, lucky for you, we’re here to help you conquer all your dating fears. Our three top tips for the perfect date will have you back on your A game in no time!
1. Relieve the Pressure
Trying to find ‘the one’ can feel more than a little overwhelming and it can be easy to slip into the unhealthy mindset of, “But I just want someone.” It’s important to take a step back and acknowledge that finding your ideal partner isn’t going to happen overnight and might take longer than expected. The first date you have after a dating break will rarely be something amazing. Trust us, we’ve had some absolute shockers. Expecting perfection can often lead to unnecessary stress and anxiety which can lead to a negative dating experience. In fact, research suggests that excessive stress may contribute to anti-social behaviour and poor social relations. We recommend practicing yoga and meditation techniques to help dimmish stress while dating.
2. Location, Location, Location…
The best way to keep stress and anxieties at bay is to choose a dating location that you feel comfortable with. If your date has suggested a location that you don’t feel entirely comfortable with, it’s important to speak up! This is a great opportunity to suggest an idea of your own. Whether you’re a café lover, a restaurant fiend, or just want a bit of adventure, the perfect location is definitely out there. We advise choosing a restaurant that’s easy to get to and provides a large selection of foods. Our top pick for London would have to be cafe-luca.co.uk! With lots of natural lighting, beautiful outside space (yep, they even have pergolas!), and an extensive Mediterranean menu, this is definitely the daters’ dream.
3. Dress to… Destress?
We believe the key to success comes from…dress? Well, while that might sound a little bit shallow, we can assure you that’s definitely notwhere we’re coming from. We just mean dress in something that makes you feel comfortable! If that bright yellow dress makes you feel like sunshine, we say go for it. On the other hand, if dresses just aren’t your thing, that’s totally fine too. Don’t feel pressure to dress a certain way just because of the location or person. Just remember, your date wants to get to know you, not an idealised version. So, don that dreamy ruffle shirt you’ve been waiting to wear and get dating! Being comfortable is crucial for confidence.
Getting back into the dating game can often feel very overwhelming, but it’s important to remember that dating should be fun! Finding a partner shouldn’t have to feel like a chore and, when it does, it’s probably time to take a step back and remember that your happiness starts with yourself! Finding someone is definitely not the be all and end all.